The Written Work
Modern dating isn't broken. It's working exactly as designed — to keep you searching, circling, and never quite arriving. The apps, the algorithms, the advice — all of it is built to sustain the search, not end it.
Stranded names what you've been feeling and gives you the framework to finally move. This is not a self-help book. It's a diagnosis — and a direction.
"You are not the problem. The system is. And once you see it, you can't unsee it."
2023
What does it mean for God to be queer? Not as provocation — as theological precision. Holy Queer is a prophetic examination of divine queerness, the politics of the Black church, and what full inclusion actually demands of a community that claims to love all people.
Drawing on the words of bell hooks — "queer not as in who you are sleeping with, but queer as in at odds with everything around you" — Karmen makes the case that Jesus himself was the original outsider. And that the church has spent centuries trying to domesticate what was never meant to be tamed.
2025
Written before the great disruption of 2025 — and more necessary because of it. The 4 Laws of Disruption is for people who are fed up. And fed-up is when your spirit stages a protest.
This book is for people who are experiencing a reset. The life you've known is gone. You are navigating disruption — not as a concept, but as a lived reality. Karmen gives you the four laws that govern what happens next and how to move through it with intention, not just survival.
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